Feelings that never get people’s attention — Student’s Feeling
Entering into whole new world that is fully capable and liable to put force on a person’s life and mind. A student life is full of pressure, expectation and opportunity. Every day, a new tick comes in their life. Student life is simple till KG classes but after that a lot of complications found and it take a lot of time to know what is going around.
Entering to a new class is entering to new world, new people and new problems.
Does expectation lead to stress?
In practical world, expectation are not the problem. People think if they are expecting from someone specially student it must be fulfilled by him. It is not bad to have expectation from a student but putting pressure for that expectation is not good at all for student, for society and for country.
Students have feelings and it is true that expectation lead to stress. Every expectation is just start of building pressure on the person by spectator. There is no evidence of pressure on mind and even can’t be proved in any means.
Love, Study and Society
As student enter into new world, he meet new people and start building connection with them. Some of them are friends, some are relatives and then comes to someone who is neither friend nor relative but still special for his or her life. It is the person whom he think his or her better half. It is not easy thing to choose someone who is going to live with you, fight with you, correct you for whole life. It is possible that the person he/she has chosen is just kind of person that just taking advantage of time and using just for materialistic things or completing requirement of body needs (i.e., sexual pleasure).
Even if he/she gets his better half that is not only for things mentioned above it is big task to keep things in a manner to avoid being it apart. Usually, student doesn’t get required time to show his or her love that also led to stress and problems in life.
Study is second most important term in a student mind. It is correct that it should be placed first, but in a student mind usually it is second priority. Marksheet, test, grades, ranks, parents pressure, teacher’s pressure and lot of things that can disturb mind a lot. (Personally, I got the problem by teacher’s side. We will talk about it later).
And here comes society, an unwanted stress creators for whole life. It is good that society teach us the way they followed in their life. New ideas and new revolution are not easy to pass off these societies. It is just not me, people can feel itself if they are doing something new in society. Let me take you to intercaste marriage, when it started for first time. Society doesn’t accepted intercaste marriage even in 20th century. Society not only create stress about intercaste Marriage, it also create stress to students who are not going well in studies, love life or what so ever.
At the end, it is not easy to understand feelings of students. But still, we can help them by not putting pressure on them by various activities.
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